A CREATIVE MESS

Coward??? A coward is someone who lies, cheats, a...

2012-04-07T19:46:39.531-05:00

Coward??? A coward is someone who lies, cheats, and misleads those that care.. YOU are the pathetic one. All those that have known you (both past and present would agree).. yOU ARE the pathetic LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear anonymous; since you are so concerned with m...

2012-03-27T04:55:25.068-05:00

Dear anonymous;
since you are so concerned with my well being, and you seem to "know Tom" so well, why don't you send me a private e-mail, or even call me. I'd be glad to listen to what you have to say... But this "public bashing" is not really the way to go about it. Indeed your comment at the beginning of this thread is mean-spirited towards me, but now you say you know me & say I'm "way too good for him"? Please either butt out and mind your own business, or send me an email @ rshelor@tampabay.rr.com or call me at 727-741-2211. I do not fear what you have to say... but as I have learned from my mistake, this should be a private matter, don't you think so?

Knowing both Tom and Becky, I totally agree with y...

2012-03-26T09:29:07.801-05:00

Knowing both Tom and Becky, I totally agree with you, Kathy. However, I must say that I think Becky is WAY too good for him, his dishonest ways and lack of integrity. Having said that, you can understand why I choose to remain anonymous.

Unless I am mistaken, this blogger is for Becky an...

2012-03-20T00:49:48.691-05:00

Unless I am mistaken, this blogger is for Becky and her friends. Since "anonymous" is obviously not in that category, I say the rest of us need to treat this person the same way one would treat a rude child interrupting an adult conversation... by ignoring them. Although I, too, am tempted to "defend" Becky, that only gives "anonymous" some warped validation that seems to feed "it" like some bad science fiction creature. I think those of us that actually belong here need to give the comments left by "anonymous" the attention that is so richly deserved, i.e., none. No attention, no recognition, no validation and maybe, just MAYBE, they will find their own friends to blog with.
Having said that, I am honored to have considered Becky a good friend for decades, and I am certain the rest of you feel the same.
Love ya, Bec,
Kathy Wight

Yeah, I've got a pretty good idea, pussy. I se...

2012-03-19T18:41:11.109-05:00

Yeah, I've got a pretty good idea, pussy. I see you're still hiding behind your keyboard! Figures. You're a small "human being." Come on out and play, yellow belly! I promise not to physically hurt you...that would be wrong. Pathetic coward.

Shakin' in my shoes. If we choose backup from ...

2012-03-19T17:55:52.981-05:00

Shakin' in my shoes. If we choose backup from the department we both know whp will have more. . . do you have any idea how they feel abuout you?

oh, my mistake. So, sleeping with another woman i...

2012-03-19T17:51:28.740-05:00

oh, my mistake. So, sleeping with another woman is "working it out"? Well i guess that works for him.

Hey, "anonymous" you pussy! The REAL MAN...

2012-03-16T19:59:37.043-05:00

Hey, "anonymous" you pussy! The REAL MAN is still right here, bitch! Tom Bracalento. Not to hard to find. You know where I work, most likely have my email or at least access to how to get my cell number. Go ahead and give me call and let me know where to meet you and I will demonstrate on your sorry coward ass just what a man I am! Do you copy? Loser? You are a weak, powerless fuck. Hiding like the chicken bitch that you are behind you "anonymity." Come on, coward. Call me. Oh, and I too will pay for the name change. Hmmmm, interesting.... that "name change" seems to have struck a nerve with you, coward.

Hey "anonymous," you chicken-shit loser ...

2012-03-16T18:52:25.927-05:00

Hey "anonymous," you chicken-shit loser coward. Actually it did work out for us quite well, thank you for asking, you piece of shit. Yeah, we've gone through a rough time, but let me educate you, you wretched low-life! Both Rebecca and I will emerge from this rough time back on two feet, better & stronger than before! Who knows where life will take us, but one tjing I do know: Our worst day will always be better than your best one! Why don't you take a few moments & reflect where either your parents or you went so miserably wrong in your mental development? We will both be judt fine when all is said & done. You, on the other hand will ALWAYS be the pathetic loser that you already demonstrated with your sad attempt at diliberately hurting either of us. ( Which didn't work, we both actually got a much needed laugh together.) (Thank you again.)

Dear "anonymous" Since you don't hav...

2012-03-16T07:10:09.084-05:00

Dear "anonymous"
Since you don't have the guts to sign your name, I can only assume your identity... I'm SURE who it is NOT...
as far as your comment goes... things are still in the process of working out... but regardless of how they finally turn out, that morning and the mornings that followed for over a year where something that I would never give up. It truly was the happiest time of my life.

Hey! What happened to the "REAL MAN"?? ...

2012-03-15T21:13:22.721-05:00

Hey! What happened to the "REAL MAN"?? Or, the suggested name change??? WAKE UP!!!

How did that work out for ya??????

2012-03-15T21:02:57.994-05:00

How did that work out for ya??????

HAHA!!!!!!!

2012-03-15T20:59:43.644-05:00

HAHA!!!!!!!

Changed mine too!

2011-08-28T11:17:12.099-05:00

Changed mine too!

Thank you Thomas ... for your undying love and dev...

2011-07-25T20:33:11.839-05:00

Thank you Thomas ... for your undying love and devotion, for showing me what real love is, and for healing what I thought could never be healed... My heart is yours. I am the luckiest woman in the world. I love you.

I was going to leave a comment earlier... as a matter of fact, I did, but deleted it, and waited til cooler heads prevailed.

Kathy, thank you, too, for your comments and most of all your friendship. By the way, I talked to Amy yesterday and Roni today, and they both said hello!

To "Anonymous"... I hardly think it's appropriate to wish me a Happy Mother's Day when you didn't even go to my mother's funeral when she died. And your good friend spells her name "ShaWna"...

Hey Becky... I remember you telling me that it wa...

2011-07-25T17:24:04.323-05:00

Hey Becky...

I remember you telling me that it was gonna cost more than a hundred dollars to take your name back and money was tight at the time, but, in retrospect, it would have been money well spent! Looks like you may be getting a new name, anyway, for free :)
It was great seeing you yesterday, and it was also great to see the smile on your face that has been gone for so long. Congratulations on making a life for yourself!
And, also.... what Tom said!

Love ya

2011-07-25T11:20:03.329-05:00

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June 19, 2011 9:55 AM Anonymous said... It's...

2011-07-22T18:40:02.160-05:00

June 19, 2011 9:55 AM

Anonymous said...
It's all been said; it's all been done. Enjoy your life to the fullest. Learn not to kill; learn not to burn. And learn, Rebecca, how to treat those who love you with reciprocal affection and respect. Burying Laurie and Amy and Shauna and Bill and Angie and Benjamin and Mark and Monica and and Linda and Ann and Kali and Tony and Wayne isn't the way to go through life. Learn to live up to your name - it is, after all, borrowed (until you change it again, just as you reinvent yourself every few years) - and pay back Shauna and Wayne and so many others from who you stole. And when it runs its course - as it surely will - try and use a little tenderness the next time you bury someone. Go, now, and become what you may. You are singularly not the sum of your experiences, for you've been incapable of love, growth or ... or happiness. G'bye.

June 28, 2011 6:50 PM

Wayne, oh excuse me, "anonymous."
Do us all a big favor? Go away. Go and crawl back into that lonely, loser hovel in which you currently reside. (The industrial park garage/converted office.)
You sir, and I use that term with the greatest amount of sarcastic insincerity, have become the most vile, wretched, sorry excuse for a man that I have EVER encountered....ever! You are a childish sociopath. You can't get your sorry way, so you go and do the two best things you are capable of doing. Lying and character assasination. I've read all your e-mails and all the chat logs trying to figure out what the hell is wrong with you? My conclusion is that you are either mentally ill, or extremely sadistic. Actually? I strongly believe you are both.
I offer as an example, your latest written rant; in which you've obviously chosen the potentially public forum in an attempt to embarrass the hostess of this blog. Some of those names you've offered as those who've been "buried?" I've spoken personally to, or read emails from, those that matter most to Rebecca. To a person, none seem to harbor those same twisted, delusional sentiments that seem to be swirling around in that hellish vacuum between your well-endowed ears!! By contrast, all vehemently have expressed nothing but love and support for Rebecca. How strange? (There are a couple on your "list" of whom I give a rat's ass about.) I wonder, Wayne, I mean, "anonymous," do you really believe the garbage you have written to Rebecca over the past 7 months? And, what do you really think you were going to accomplish? The answer to those questions can surely be found in my prior conclusion about you: You are both sadistic and mentally ill.
Gee, I wonder if Jean Griggs, whom we know you are once again involved with, (not that you probably ever seriously stopped)...You know..Jean Griggs" The woman whom you cheated on Rebecca with? The woman in whose "arms you wanted to die in?" I wonder if Jeano would enjoy reading the emails you sent Rebecca over the last 7 months, you know which ones. The ones in which you expressed your phony desire to become romantically re-involved with Rebecca again (that is, after you found out she was finally dating someone else and not at your beckon call anymore.) All the while you were more than likely still involved to some extent with Jeano! My guess is you wouldn't be spending any more nights over at her house like you are now, would ya?
Wayne, take you lies and libelous baloney and your wretched, lonely, loser life and go away.

One more thing, Wayne, or G.W. or George or whatever you're calling yourself this week, as for your bogus "promise" to Elmer? Don't worry about it...She's finally got a REAL man to take care of her. You go can go take care of Jean Griggs!
Unlike you, Anonymous (you coward, Wayne,) I will sign my reply!!!

Sincerly...
Thomas Bracalento

HFD, E&G: I made a promise, E, I still believe...

2011-06-19T09:55:16.209-05:00

HFD, E&G: I made a promise, E, I still believe I'll find a way to keep it.

Good on you! It's about time! Congrats and all...

2011-05-23T15:26:02.308-05:00

Good on you! It's about time! Congrats and all the love and luck in the world. Forever. I'm so very proud-a you! Yal ... Again, forever.

Ya know, you look more and more like your mother a...

2011-05-09T16:54:55.286-05:00

Ya know, you look more and more like your mother as each year passes ... and that's a wonderful thing:
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_lnBTMiYi-zw/Rykw-amPwJI/AAAAAAAABAk/NHBa4xCC1Hg/s1600-h/100_2898.jpg

HMD 2 D&B ... in memory and celebration.

2011-05-08T08:48:38.775-05:00

HMD 2 D&B ... in memory and celebration.

But I will learn how to after all ...

2011-03-17T16:25:00.288-05:00

But I *will* learn how to after all ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAX1rkdzUH4&fea...

2011-03-09T19:22:10.808-05:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAX1rkdzUH4&feature=related

And forgiveness is ... forever.

2011-03-07T16:58:20.502-05:00

And forgiveness is ... forever.